Can You Manifest Your Perfect Match?

“There’s that old paradigm that even though we think we’re self-aware, there are parts of us that are still wounded, ” said Ms. Lyman. “And we attract people who are a mirror to our fears.”

Unlike matchmakers, who introduce potential love interests to one another, Ms. Lyman connects people to themselves. She believes that finding love is within your control — “manifestable.” The problem is that most singles are operating without a strategic plan that’s tailored to them.

For a hefty price tag, she’ll teach you to date “consciously” and with intention.

Ms. Lyman lives on a five-acre nature preserve in Homestead, Fla., with her husband, Michael Lyman, and five rescue dogs. She says $10,000 is “a bargain,” considering how much money her clients have invested on endless therapy sessions, yoga retreats and energy healing, along with “pain, divorce and time,” she said.

Megan Weks’s “Manfunnel Dating Method” ranges from $24.99 to $2,499 for digital programs. Her private coaching for men and women starts at $5,000, which includes five calls with her that must be used within 60 days. For $2,500, clients can work with a coach certified in the Manfunnel program.

Macy Matarazzo, a love coach outside Boulder, Colo., charges $9,000 for her six-month program, SuperLOVED, which includes weekly group sessions, daily meditations and two 75-minute sessions with her per month. “Our relationships are the most sacred thing we can have,” said Ms. Matarazzo, 52, who mainly works with women over 40. “The interesting part of the pandemic is that so many people are waking up to that.”